How To Talk To Your Children About Your Divorce

If you have children and are planning to divorce, it is important to carefully think about how you will talk to them about the decisions you and your spouse have made and the changes that will lie ahead. Children are highly perceptive, and even if you think they are unaware of the changes, they can…

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Divorcing When Your Child is Questioning Their Gender or Sexuality

Divorcing when your child is questioning their gender or sexuality can present unique challenges because just as you and your spouse are navigating difficult but relatively standard financial and child-related issues, you may find yourselves also facing difficult emotions and anything-but routine decisions that arise related to your child’s gender or sexuality. Getting on the…

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3 Common Mistakes When A Divorce Is Not Child-Centered

In the blog 7 Tips for Putting Children First in a Divorce, I discussed how to have a child-centered divorce and the benefits to children. The other side of the equation is the common mistakes that parents make when they put their needs ahead of the children’s needs.  1. Parents Making Assumptions that are NOT in…

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7 Tips for Putting Children First in a Divorce

A child-centered divorce is a divorce where the parents keep the physical and emotional needs of their children as their primary concern. In a child-centered divorce, every decision the parents make is through that lens – How will this affect our children? What is important to our kids, now and in the future? Most parents…

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