How to Make it Clear that you Want a Divorce with Kate Anthony

By Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 57

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Kate Anthony, the author of “The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage” and host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast “The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast.” Kate is also creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Advocate, a Co-Parenting Specialist, and a High Conflict Divorce Coach.

Tune in to the episode to hear about:

  • The importance of having a clear, declarative conversation when stating the desire for a divorce, rather than seeking permission
  • The predictable responses from spouses and the necessity of being grounded in one's decision to move forward
    The complexities of divorce with a focus on helping women make the decision to leave their marriages
  • Why women often struggle to end their marriages, touching on societal expectations and the disproportionate emotional labor women typically bear
  • Methods to support women through their divorce journey while keeping the process as amicable as possible

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

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Andrea Vacca is a Collaborative Divorce Attorney and Mediator with more than 30 years of legal experience. A former President of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals, she is a member of numerous family law and dispute resolution organizations, including the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, the NYS Council on Divorce Mediation, and the Family and Divorce Mediation Council of Greater New York. Andrea is also the host of A Better Divorce Podcast, which offers expert insights to help individuals approach divorce with less conflict and more intention.