5 Tips for the Holidays After Divorce or Separation

Deciding how to share parenting time around Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, and New Year’s often involve many conversations and could be challenging to a couple that is divorcing. What you may not have considered during the divorce is how you will feel afterwards, when the schedule is in place, your children are with the other parent, and you are left on your own. Many emotions can come up around this time, so It’s important to give the holidays thoughtful planning and self-care so you can get through this season with resilience and grace. Here are 5 tips for how to handle the holidays to make them more manageable and enjoyable despite the changes in your life.

Divorce and Separation

The holidays may feel different after divorce, but with some thoughtful planning, self-compassion, and an open mind, you can still find joy and create meaningful memories during this time. While it’s natural to feel a range of emotions, remember that by acknowledging them, embracing new traditions, and focusing on self-care, you’re taking positive steps toward a fulfilling future.

Most importantly, you don’t have to do this alone. Our team of Collaborative Divorce Attorneys and Mediators at Vacca Family Law Group is here to offer support and guidance tailored to your unique situation. Call us today at (646) 502-8591 or contact us online to schedule your free introductory call.

Andrea Vacca is a Collaborative Divorce Attorney and Mediator with more than 30 years of legal experience. A former President of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals, she is a member of numerous family law and dispute resolution organizations, including the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, the NYS Council on Divorce Mediation, and the Family and Divorce Mediation Council of Greater New York. Andrea is also the host of A Better Divorce Podcast, which offers expert insights to help individuals approach divorce with less conflict and more intention.