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Negotiated Divorce Agreements for a Private, Cooperative, and Customized Resolution

Create a personalized settlement outside of court with the support of an attorney who represents only your interests.

What Is a Negotiated Divorce Agreement?

A negotiated divorce agreement is a legal, personalized agreement created between spouses without going to court. With the help of your individual attorneys, you and your spouse work together to resolve important issues like the division of assets, child custody, child support, and spousal support and child support.

This process is ideal for couples who each want an attorney to advocate for them, but still want to protect their privacy, reduce conflict, and stay in control of their outcomes.

  • Receive legal advice and advocacy without battling it out in court
  • Save time, money, and stress
  • Maintain control over important decisions
  • Create flexible, personalized agreements
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Is a Negotiated Divorce Agreement Right for You?

Negotiated divorce is a practical option for couples who want to avoid courtroom battles and work cooperatively toward a peaceful resolution. Whether you’re just beginning the separation process or revisiting terms post-divorce, a negotiated agreement can offer clarity, efficiency, and closure.

Negotiated divorce agreements are ideal for spouses who want to stay out of court, resolve matters on their timeline, and make thoughtful decisions for their family’s future.

Our Negotiated Agreement Clients include:

  • Individuals who want independent legal advice while still seeking a respectful resolution
  • Parents who want to keep their kids out of the conflict and be able to co-parent in the future
  • Professionals and Business Owners with complex financial situations

Why Choose a Negotiated Divorce Agreement?

Negotiated divorce agreements offer a private and dignified alternative to traditional divorce. You and your spouse each have your own independent attorney who will advocate for your respective needs, while still sharing a common goal of helping you reach a resolution that works for each of you and your children. You get individual legal support without the delays, expenses, or animosity of a courtroom battle.

Negotiations happen outside the public courtroom, keeping your personal matters confidential and dignified.

Agreements are tailored to your family’s unique needs, not limited by rigid court rulings.

Your attorney negotiates on your behalf in a cooperative way, which minimizes emotional strain and fosters respectful communication during and after divorce.

Without being tied to the court’s calendar and subject to its delays, you can finalize your divorce more quickly and move forward with your life.

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How a Negotiated Divorce Agreement Works

When you choose a negotiated divorce, you’re choosing a smarter, more human way to reach an agreement.

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1. Individual Legal Advice

Meet with your attorney and receive legal advice targeted to your priorities, concerns, and goals around parenting, finances, and property.

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2. Cooperative Negotiation

Attorney negotiates on your behalf in a cooperative manner to find common ground with your spouse and their attorney.

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3. Agreement and Legal Approval

Once you’ve reached consensus, your attorneys draft, review, and finalize your legally enforceable Separation Agreement, which can then be filed with the other documents needed to finalize your divorce.

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Negotiated Divorce Agreement FAQs

When both spouses have their own attorney, it ensures the negotiations are productive and that your respective interests are addressed. Because you each receive individual legal advice, you will each feel protected, which helps move the process forward more efficiently and fairly.

Negotiated divorces are almost always less expensive than a traditional divorce. You avoid the extensive legal fees that result from courtroom battles and drawn-out proceedings, making it a more cost-effective option overall.

Yes. Many divorcing couples are unhappy with each other and find it hard to communicate effectively but can still reach an agreement with support from their attorneys.

Yes. Even if you agree on many things, it’s likely that you haven’t discussed all the necessary details that will need to be addressed in your Separation Agreement. A licensed family law attorney will engage in negotiations to address all those details and ensure your agreement is well-drafted, enforceable, and protects your rights.

Yes. Most negotiated divorce agreements are finalized in a matter of months, compared to traditional divorce, which can drag on for a year or more due to court delays and conflict.