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How to Navigate the Early Stages of Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

New York collaborative divorce and mediation lawyer Andrea Vacca spoke to Marysol Castro of Pix11 Morning News and was asked whether there really is a divorce season (the answer is YES!) and to offer some divorce tips for how to navigate the early stages…

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Do You Want to Protect Your Privacy During Divorce? Then Keep It Out Of Court

By Andrea Vacca

When someone is first thinking about filing for divorce, they don’t often think about the lack of privacy that comes with the traditional divorce process. In New York, courtrooms are open to everyone.  Reporters may be in the courtroom, neighbors may…

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Common Mistakes When A Divorce Is Not Child-Centered - Vacca Law

3 Common Mistakes When A Divorce Is Not Child-Centered

By Andrea Vacca

In the blog 7 Tips for Putting Children First in a Divorce, I discussed how to have a child-centered divorce and the benefits to children. The other side of the equation is the common mistakes that parents make when they put…

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7 Tips for Putting Children First in a Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

A child-centered divorce is a divorce where the parents keep the physical and emotional needs of their children as their primary concern. In a child-centered divorce, every decision the parents make is through that lens – How will this affect…

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Divorce Without Court: A More Peaceful Solution – New eBook

By Andrea Vacca

New eBook by Andrea Vacca: Divorce Without Court: A More Peaceful Solution Do you assume divorce pits one spouse against the other, resulting in a nasty battle where no one actually wins and children are the collateral damage? When most…

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5 Reasons Why You May Want A Postnuptial Agreement

By Andrea Vacca

Postnuptial agreements are contracts that are signed during the marriage. These are often entered into when there has been some sort of change in the marital relationship or financial circumstances that causes one or both parties to seek more financial security…

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How to Reduce the Costs of Your Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

Divorce in New York can be expensive and this is especially true if there are complicated issues involved regarding finances or your children. But there are things you can do to keep the costs down. I recently contributed to a…

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How to Get Divorced When Your Spouse Doesn’t Want to End the Marriage

By Andrea Vacca

In most divorces, both spouses are aware that the marriage is ending and they decide what process they will use to reach an agreement, such as using mediation or the collaborative process. In other divorces, however, there has not been a meeting of…

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Gray Divorce and the Benefits of a Divorce Team

By Andrea Vacca

People divorcing after the age of 50, often called grey divorce, recognize that they have some different financial and emotional issues not faced in younger couples who divorce. As I wrote earlier, navigating a grey divorce with dignity is often an essential…

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The Bezos Effect: The Future of Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

As a collaborative divorce lawyer in New York, headlines announcing the Bezos divorce settlement gave me hope for the future of divorce – and the future of marriages in the US.  Since the news first made headlines in January that…

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Navigating Your Grey Divorce with Dignity

By Andrea Vacca

Baby Boomer divorce rates continue to be above the average with one in every four divorces occurring in this age group. When I first wrote about so-called “grey divorce” (also referred to as ‘gray divorce’) in 2012, the overall divorce…

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High Net Worth Divorce Alternatives

By Andrea Vacca

Divorcing couples who have high-assets – a high net worth divorce – are exposed to considerable risk if they litigate their divorce. Divorce proceedings are part of the public record: that means observers, including the press, are allowed in the courtroom. While…

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