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Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative Divorce promotes respect and keeps a divorcing couple in control of the process, not judges.

Going through a divorce doesn't automatically mean having to endure the turmoil that is often associated with it. You can end your marriage without destroying your family. Collaborative Divorce was developed as an alternative to traditional divorce.

Collaborative Divorce is a new option for divorcing couples to resolve disputes respectfully without going to court. It offers couples a humane, solutions-based approach to ending a relationship.

It differs from the traditional process because Collaborative Divorce promotes respect and keeps control of the process with the couple, not a judge. Because clients agree not to go to court, the process is more open and less adversarial. The goal is to enhance communication throughout the process and lay the foundation for a healthier relationship during, and after, the divorce.

Collaborative Divorce is based on three principles:
  1. The parties pledge in writing with each other and with their attorneys that they will not to go to court.
  2. Both spouses engage in an honest exchange of information.
  3. Each solution takes into account the highest priorities of both spouses and their children.
How Does Collaborative Divorce Work?

The goal of collaborative divorce is to come to a mutually acceptable, negotiated settlement between two parties without the threat of going to court. In this practice, each of the parties retains their own collaborative attorney who will gather information, provide education on rights, responsibilities and options, and negotiate on their behalf.

At the center of collaborative divorce are the needs of the entire family, especially the children's. With collaborative divorce, conflict is kept to a minimum so all family members can move on positively with their lives.

Collaborative divorce is a good choice when each party prefers to have his or her own independent attorney guide them through the legal process. If the participants ultimately are unable to agree, the collaborative attorneys withdraw and litigation attorneys can be retained to take the matter to court.

The Collaborative Team Is Centered Around You To move on positively, there are times when working with other professionals can be helpful and can facilitate coming to an agreement. The collaborative team often includes:
  • Divorce coaches who will assist in developing communication tools and managing difficult emotions.
  • Child specialists who will work with parents in creating a parenting plan that works best for the children and gives them a “voice”.
  • Financial specialists who will gather and analyze financial information and assist in helping you make informed decisions about financial matters.
Benefits of Collaborative Divorce
  • Better for your children. Children are given a voice in the process, alleviating potential trauma that sometimes lasts for generations.
  • You remain in control. Decision making is directly in the hands of the spouses involved in divorce rather than the hands of a third party, “one size fits all” directive.
  • You enjoy confidentiality. Problems and assets are kept private.
  • Solutions are mutually beneficial. The collaborative process recognizes and understands each client's needs, interests concerns and goals, while allowing both parties to be heard throughout the duration.
  • Focus on the future. Collaboration changes the notion of divorce from adversarial and win/lose to a problem-solving constructive process.




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